Her, well still going where she pleases, when she pleases, still cake eating, spending money, staying out till 2 am or 4 am! I have continued to act "as-if". I go to work, come home early and find things to do with the kids, stay out of her way. Give her space. Let her do her thing.
Well you've done good DB'ing. I tend to agree with your early assumption that your W is MLC. Based on your descriptions it sure sounds like she goes monster regularly and acts like an alien has taken her over her body, two of the more obvious signs of MLC. Unfortunately there's just not a lot you can do other than leave her to it.
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I had had enough of being called a "f'n a$$hole" and I got the paperwork for divorce and told her to sign it.
Can't say I blame you. I don't think I could tolerate much of that kind of behavior from my W either. It could take years for her to come out of the tunnel and maybe D will give you the space that YOU need to survive it.
Physical D isn't the end of the R, it's just a piece of paper. Emotional D doesn't happen until you decide to drop the rope for good.
