To add to what Cadet has posted, mlcers wear many masks during mlc. They are attempting to find the right mask for their lives. Depression in men is very different than it is for women.
If you sit quietly and patiently, the mask that he is wearing will slip and you will be able to see behind it, but it takes time.
Grab a seat on the curb and we'll share our popcorn w/you as he zooms by.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
