3 years aftet D-Day and i finally registet

[Am I Too Late]

25YrsMlc, you were quoting LeopoldStoch with the majority of your responses and questions. I am not sure if that was what you intended to do.

She drinks when she goes out to bars and house parties from past history. She is not drinking prior to showing up on the occasions she has attended his karate classes. They are right after she gets done driving her school bus route and early Saturday mornings.

I am detaching the best way that i know how to presently.

What do you see as me still enabling her?

I have not had contact with her since lastlast Saturday. I stopped giving her updates on our dons scheduled upcoming events. I don't text her anymore photos of him enjoying his activities. I no longer reply quickly to her texts or voice mail messages.

After i entered my last post, i missed a phone call from her as we were driving back home from the restaurant because my phone was set to silent mode still from the meeting i was at.

This time she left a voice mail message that i will respond to later. She called 2 times in a row and was ticked off and stated i have not gotten back to her after 3 calls so fat this week.

So now, this probably makes me into a bigger enemy to her that her and her
M can rally against getting more unified.

I don't want to become her enemy any more than she already has made me out to be.

As far as a custody agreement, the courts prefer to continue with the status quo and i have proven to be a capable parent child care provider.

Yes, i want to avoid divorce court as long as i have not been served. Her lawyer did file last January 6th for sure. I do not have funds for a retainer fee and free legal help has declined to represent me. I have inquired with several entities.

So please tell me how and what i am doing to enable her?

Ed
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