Hello all! I hope everyone is doing well, I've been keeping myself busy! Last night I got together with a friend I haven't seen in months, we had a great time! She had me doing a spinning class with her.... WOW! It was great, but I feel like I'm still out of shape after that! hahaha
snodderly~ Thank you! And as always thank you so much for your input, I always appreciate it! You know, your questions about the closet, are very good, and I hadn't even thought about that until you mentioned it. He's quite able to clean it out himself, there is not reason I should have to do it. My only thought is, maybe, in his head he has compartmentalized that as "my" stuff, not "our" stuff since it's future baby stuff and he now wants not parts of that. But really who knows. Not fully into replay yet.... ugh.... the twists and turns have already been a lot for me.... I'm not sure how much craziness I can take! But I'm not going to worry, I'll let God handle it.
WH~ I totally agree that line IS total crap. However, I do understand in his messed up mind right now that's how he is thinking. He's living in a fantasy world, and in fantasy world we are not married, and I'm sure a lot of other crazy, probably laughable stuff is going on up there. So while, I understand, I don't agree with it. Clearly he knows that's some faulty thinking or he wouldn't have gotten upset when I said it's adultery. I'm the only one who has been speaking truth to him, which makes it a little bit harder to hold onto the rationalization (I just keep thinking, it's a rational lie we tell ourselves to make it seem like the behavior is ok, even thought it's not and we know that).
RoRoinMD ~ LOL a lot of crazy things make sense to them. Seeing as how my H has a family full of crazy people it's hard to tell what craziness I'll get next. Not enough popcorn in the world...... Also there are a lot of good people over here, with a lot of good insight.
updates~ There's not really a lot to update. H continues to be civil, even would go so far as to say nice. He even apologized to me when he irritated me the other night, said he didn't want to end an evening like that. I just about fell over from shock!
He's not going to be home this weekend, he just left a little bit ago. I actually know where he is going this weekend. He told me Sunday night he would be going away, and he told me it was with a shooting buddy (after I had asked about shooting and this particular person). This is the most information he has given me in months.
When I had seen him Thursday morning he told me he wasn't sure what time he would be home that night, I told him I wasn't sure when I would be home either. Again, that's the most information I've had in a year.
Also interesting, he hasn't shaved in probably a week, which he never does, I don't know if he's going for the bearded look (hey MLC anything can happen) or if it's a reflection of the chaos inside. Just thought it was interesting. Oh and toothbrush has been in the holder this entire time. LOL
As for me tonight I'm picking up a friend from the hospital (she's having a laparoscopy done, I hope everything goes well for her today.) Tomorrow I'll be working for my dad, only running things on my own, he and his wife are going out of town for a wedding, but my brother should be coming down to help me out some in the AM. Tomorrow night, of course, haunted attraction, found one that sounds interesting in MD, so we will see. I guess I'm doing alright at GAL.
