this was all after he had cancelled last Monday, Tuesday, and cut our Wed. dinner short.
So, today I called him en route to church and said I didn't feel 'wanted' this week and we had a real problem if an entire weekend could go by and we didn't spend any time together. I told him I could feel him pulling away from me this week. B said I was correct and he is struggling with figuring out how to let someone get close to him again. He thanked me for being honest and open and he needed to "sit" with what I had said for awhile.
Golfgirl - throw this fish back!!!
Seriously. When you posted this you'd only been dating him for three weeks. DEFINITELY too soon for you to be expecting him to behave like you were in a relationship. But also soon enough to see he wasn't pursuing you the way the RIGHT guy would be.
This guy isn't making time with you a priority (plus I wouldn't be surprised if the old army buddy didn't turn out to be an old girlfriend who showed back up).
But either way - you were way more into having an instant relationship with him, than he was into having one with you.
Get back out there and start dating other guys. This one's not for you. Don't make the same mistakes I made with Mr. Big Lots.
