Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
Vero, it concerns me to hear you say you don't feel like doing things you usually enjoy. These are classic signs of depression. I am not a doctor but I'm an amateur one ;-) - seriously, though - these are signs of depression.

If you are still breastfeeding your daughter, you may want to consider weaning her and going on some meds. You need support and you need to be healthy and strong for those kids.

I spoke with IC on Mon and she said it was depression. It's been a while since I felt this way. And I agree I need meds but I'm so stubborn about nursing. I want to give it another 6mos, at least, before I quit. She's so attached and I will feel worse weaning her early.

I'd rather resort to other techniques before meds/weaning D1.


Honestly, I think it's good that you don't feel like posting about your sitch. You may have processed it to the point where you don't need to process any more. I'm posting 3, 4 times a day - somewhat compulsively - so clearly I got more work to do. I wish I didn't have to obsess on every GD little thing but at least I got a safe place to do that and I don't have to burden my poor mother more than once a day.

I agree. I think it's good thing. I'd rather post what my kids are doing or what I'm doing ;-)


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017