Now Separated, Am I doing the right things?

[25yearsmlc]

Thank you. I need to think about all of this.

My point about your writing has nothing to do with style or grammar or any "editing" I might want to do.

It's about clarity and you being more direct. I asked if you communicate in speech, the way you write,

b/c if you do,

then you and your wife are not clear with each other. Her letter is an example of her lack of clarity, which confuses you.

And your writing, at times, is unclear and if it's how you speak, then it's probably not as clear as you believe.

I get the concept of venting here, quite well.

My question was about your ability to communicate with her, in a clear way. (Hence the suggestions I made about how you can talk to her).

It's Not about your writing style or grammar. Hey, I know I'm not here to teach English Composition and I wasn't trying to be small minded.

It's about how you communicate with others instead of directly w/her, then interpret or mind read, often negatively, and your use of inuendo, that I find confusing. Is that clearer?

I hope this helps.