Well here is my sitch my W has moved out for about 3 months now and I think we have had good comunication mostly about the Kids. She did come over and had dinner with me and the girls the other week...she gave me a very long and passiontate hug..really surprised me...i did not say anything or pursue. but since then there has been emotional distance...she often tells me she is old and going through perimenopause....I have noticed that this really effects her periods and makes her a much different person at these times. I guess I need to sit back and wait...it has been hard because when my D6 and d 8 are with my W they are often trying to figure how to come over here and call crying missing me...they don't do the same when they are with her. I need to keep my distance from her but at the same time I want to be there for my daughters...sorry I rambled on..
