Tell him that while you understand what he's going through, he will not speak to you like that any more. That he has his issues to sort out and that's fine, but to not take them out on you or your children any longer.
When it comes to that, you start standing strong.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.