Quote: Do you really call every time you are thinking of the person (like you would with other friends...) or only when you have really thought it out. Do you play it cool and just return their calls?? Hmmmmmm...lots to think about..I just don't get it!!!
I guess my feeling is that you don't call them every time you're thinking of them, because they're not like other friends, your friendship doesn't have a friendship-style history, so you have to be a little more careful about when you call them. Does that make sense? Or I guess another way to put it is, don't call them every time you think of them, if you aren't thinking of them as a friend, but as -- as you put it, Sun -- as someone you shared a life and a bed with. OR, another way to put it, don't call them when you're not feeling detached and good about yourself. What do you all think?
