Thanks for your advice and support guys.

I just asked exw when she will move. She said next Wednesday. I offered to take the day off and help her. She gave me the circular answer that used to gets under my skin. We talked about what she will leave and take. Looks like she's living more than we had agreed on our divorce degree. I offered to help her move stuff she said she has a moving company. I can tell she feels guilty and worries about me. I have always felt that she thought I was weak and couldn't care for myself and my family. Or maybe I felt that way about myself. I am learning me. I have always worked and pulled my own weight but dunno what she thought. She did not like that my offices didn't have windows or coffee makers. But I shouldn't have to apologize cause I love working and helping the poor and mentally I'll. I love my work and the patients.
I feel like crying and maybe that's part of the process


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden