Thanks for perspective on what's going on in my sitch and maybe WHY. I agree that the hugs/cuddling are definitely due to his feeling badly for causing me such grief. None-the-less it is hard for me not to give in to his comforting...although there will be less/no real opportunities for this when he moves out.
I'm glad to hear there is light "on the other side," and that things will get better/easier after we adjust to our new living sitch.
Question- should we get into family C right away to help the transition or wait until one of the boys shows a need? I'm concerned even before we tell them. My middle son is very emotional & may "act out," but I am more worried about my S13 who is pretty quiet and doesn't share his feelings much (going through early teen normalcy).
My H and I have talked A LOT since the BD in June--about his feelings, his confusion, his need to move out, etc. I am scared that he will shut me out and I will not have any way to guage what he is thinking. Plus, the whole OW at work (talking) is a mystery to me and not knowing where his head is about things is very hard.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
