Can someone please explain to me why some MLC will be extremely nice and feel they need to continually ask questions like "Don't you see I'm here to support you" or "I really love you and I am so sorry that you're going through all of this pain"? But the very next statement is that they want to be separated and then come back with the "I feel there is someone I can love more". WTF!!
I feel like I've been on the roller coaster from hell. One minute I feel life and the next minute I feel like I'm being kicked in the stomach.
Another thing why is the MLC person is smug and arrogant. Is it because they know the LBS is the one who is on pins and needles? It is almost as if they know they are in control of your emotions and laughing as they stomp all over them at their whim.
THat strained and stressed feeling around the wone who betrayed you is very normal. Do not think you are weak because of it. FOr you not to have the feeling you would literally "not care" about her, and even then your brain my trigger on her image as being your former wife/support/booster... And now it's flipped on you. Nothing you can do but detach and stay away from her, don't communicate to her or anyone who has been turned.
Her recent actions may allow her to fall into a spot which is good for you, so maybe you should see.
