From what I am reading you were pressured into becoming a DAD and you explained to your wife that the work situation would be hard for a few years and you will not be able to support her and the child with the time needed but you will be able to support financially and when you can.
She agreed to this.
Then a few years later she meets a guy starts to like him.... You have problems in the relationship.. She says your controlling because you told her it is wrong to be talking to this predator.
Now she asks you to move out.
You know why. It is so she can pursue an affair with this guy.
My questions to you are.
1. Why did you leave? 2. Why are you paying her money that is not in an agreement? 3. Is a PA or EA a deal breaker? 4. Did you set any boundaries with these choices your wife is making? 5. Have you gotten an legal counseling about abandoning your child? 6. Do you know that you have as much right to be with your child as your wife does? 7. Have you thought of moving back home to the marriage apartment? 8. Have you talked with a lawyer about your rights as a father in situations such as this?
Do not do anything that can remove your rights as a father. Do not set precedence with monthly payments to your wife.
As judging by your nic and work I would recommend that you always record your conversations when you are with your wife.
Always be polite. Always be non-confrontational. Always be a gentleman.
Protect yourself buddy.
Then you can work on restoring the marriage.
People do strange things when they have EA's and PA's
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