Boundarys are tough. I LOVE Starsky's deffinition.
Here is MY problem with boundaries...
A fat guy going on a diet establishes a boundary of NOT eating junk food.
2 hours later, the fat guy is eating a donut.
The fat guy wasn't ready for the boundary. And now enters the vicious cycle of eating to make them feel better and being depressed cause he is fat.
AN LBS establishing a boundary and NOT enforcing it? Makes them look and feel bad. The LBS HAS to be strong enough to enforce the boundary not for the POS WAS...I care zero for the WAS, I shed no tears for them. The LBS HAS to be strong enought to enforce the boundary against the weakness inside the LBS.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
