Carnac: Haven't commented on your thread for a WHILE, but I've been following along. It certainly seems like you're making some great progress in the sitch, and I'm glad that you're trying your hardest to move slowly.
Not to nit-pick, but remember you're moving slowly just as much for YOU as you are for W.
Not having to "try" is fantastic, and that's surely thanks to the hard work you're putting in.