MIR, give me what YOU believe are two legitimate* marital complaints, and I'll give you some ideas about alternate ways to demonstrate 180s in those areas, without having to supplicate your wife.
Starsky
*these should be things that YOU know are legitimate things you need to work on, and/or things that your wife CONSISTENTLY throughout your marriage complained about -- NOT just toward the end, when she became wayward. This is to separate true things you need to work on from "re-writing of marital history" that goes on in wayward situations.