best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

A thought occured to me today...as DBers we put so much pressure on ourselves thinking we are standing and fighting to save our marriages.

Really what we are doing is standing and fighting for a "chance" to save our marriages with our spouses. Yes we need to be the ones to be strong and help them to believe there is a chance. Even once they believe there is a chance, it isn't a forgone conclusion that it is saved. We will need them to start working as hard as we have been.

So lets take a little pressure of ourselves and start enjoy that gift of time.