She is going to ruin her relationship with him but that is HER problem Ed not yours. I don't think I've ever said this on here before but Ed I think its time for you to really let her go and move on with your life. Do it for YOU and for your S you both deserve better.
That is what i am currently in the progress of doing.
I am working on personal and business goals now.
I did find the access codes for my business website and my old proposal format script to continue doing my estimates as they come in.
We, (me and my son), are going to a family birthday party this coming Saturday right after his morning karate class is done.
I have not called or texted her since last Saturday, when she had him for a shortened visit and i did not reply to her 1 phone call since she left no voice mail message either.
It's a start.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012