Afa - thanks for the heads up on the blank text meaning.
I DID do it, I SENT it on purpose but not to say FU.
I don't know why I did, I just did.

Tori - thanks for stopping by. I'm trying not to analyse it but am intrigued (how interesting...) that he has started taking the initiative. This does mean he's thinking of me with no prompting.

He again initiated this morning - "Morning Tumbling x" so I sent the same. I wonder if he notices I'm copying his exact words.
One thing I am NOT liking is it is now 2 WORD TEXTS not even 3 Wendylon!

Wendylon - OK so now I am the responder and NOT the initiator and I LIKE this much better. NO EXPECTATIONS. However, I don't think I should ignore him when he texts...
HELP please on how to be dimmer without ignoring him.
Is it just enlarging the time gap before responding?

I am abit concerned that this (morning/night texts) is going to go on endlessly with no moves forward.

On the other hand if I do no more initiating perhaps he will start to wonder himself what he is getting from this...and may pick up the ball.

I don't know. Bit confused


ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"