Twisted, you come across as very defensive...something that you said was a problem for you in your marriage...
I am not trying to be defense. I am stress to the max right now. I work 2 jobs to make ends meet. I wake up at 5 am and get home at 11pm Mon, Wed, Thur. Sat and sunday I work 8 hours shifts. I am pulling in 70+ hours a week. I get very little time with my children. My wife activily pursuing some other guy. its just really overwhelming and my defensivness is probably a direct result of this. I am trying my hardest to not revert back to my old habbits and I admit sometimes they rear their ugly heads and this is something i am try to work on.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012
Eric. I completely understand what you are saying. It is all true. Why should she believe me? It has not even been 3 months verse 9 years of a terrible marriage. I would respond in more detail but alot of that was address in my previous post and right now I am at work in a cube with 4 others around me fighting back tears and trying to hold myself together and writing out another post like my last one is too much for me right now.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012
Eric. I completely understand what you are saying. It is all true. Why should she believe me? It has not even been 3 months verse 9 years of a terrible marriage.
That is the 'depth' I am referring to....
And it comes from consistent actions...not words....
trying to hold myself together and writing out another post like my last one is too much for me right now.
No need to respond buddy..really what I wrote was for YOU. If it helped, then God Bless. The response therefore should be for YOU.
I can recall that feeling in the gut, the pain, the hurt, the anger, the frustration, the guilt. I've been there man..
It may not seem like it now...
It will get better...
You will get better...
Quick story...
Know what happens when an animal is wounded?
It separates itself from the pack.
It gives itself time to lick and heal it wounds.
Then
It comes back STRONGER!
You will come back....YOU will be BETTER!
IF.....
Quote:
it comes from consistent actions...not words
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
