Turtle,

I worried about the same thing with my w and OM as far as being able to pursue their R. I believe that it is part of why she moved out. So I do my best to not think about it. It is her choice, and I do not want to take away her free will. She has to live with the consequences of her actions. Does it affect a lot of lives, yes. But I keep going back to something I read about making yourself the best choice. We have to be patient. Others may think it is weak to hold on and hope that it will work out someday, but personally this has takin strength that I never knew I had in me.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on