She was still huffy. I don't know where it is coming from as I havn't attacked her.
No, you haven't. My guess is that you did the un-expected, that she hadn't thought through everything (as evidenced by her assumptions that she would get whatever she wanted, etc, if it went to L and you didn't go with HER plan), and now you are "making" her look at the ramifications of your sitch...damn dude, her bubble is popped, you put sand in her crank case...
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Her problem.
Exactly.
I do know that its common for the WAS to expect the LBS to stay exactly where they were, and when we move forward, well, there goes the skittles-crapping unicorn....
Now she has to think through everything, and look at herself...many are uncomfortable with doing that. She'll be huffy for a while, or longer, who knows.
You are doing great!
T^2
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