house projects are stressful in nature. sounds like you both are managing the stress pretty well.
i would imagine that a lot of feelings are coming up with her departing soon.. keep that superhero cape on and come back to the blanket when you need to.. and remember that this is a marathon.. and her leaving does not end it, it is just another mile on a long road...
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Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13