Twisted, you come across as very defensive...something that you said was a problem for you in your marriage...
I am not trying to be defense. I am stress to the max right now. I work 2 jobs to make ends meet. I wake up at 5 am and get home at 11pm Mon, Wed, Thur. Sat and sunday I work 8 hours shifts. I am pulling in 70+ hours a week. I get very little time with my children. My wife activily pursuing some other guy. its just really overwhelming and my defensivness is probably a direct result of this. I am trying my hardest to not revert back to my old habbits and I admit sometimes they rear their ugly heads and this is something i am try to work on.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012