She is going to ruin her relationship with him but that is HER problem Ed not yours. I don't think I've ever said this on here before but Ed I think its time for you to really let her go and move on with your life. Do it for YOU and for your S you both deserve better.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out