Quote: Yes, you got the papers, but what was happening the week or few days before? Could he have been wavering in favor of the M? Stuck his head out of tunnel and then got scared? You were doing something that got his attention. What was it?
He was definitely wavering in favor of M.
H was slowing moving forward, got his own place, was talking about "when he moves back home", was telling me about the stuff going on with him, we again. I was making an effort to call him, though not everyday. Then he seemed to withdraw, shortly after staying overnight here.
He said being on his own and going to C has helped him. I find this interesting since it's been barely a month for each of those things (he is now on my insurance as of last month).
What was happening right before was H withdrawing more from me. Working lots. And I know from SIL that MIL had called OW, then called BIL in her crazymaking (she's suddenly realized that his behavior is not OK, so I am not sure what triggered that). I did mention the BIL call to H, but he seemed OK about it because he knows I stay way out of their drama. And he decided to keep our dog at OWs when he'd been saying for weeks he was bringing him here.
I gave him candy for V Day and he called me twice on that day about insurance papers. I texted him once or twice and sent a sexy email (this usually works for us and I got no response to that one, so I backed off).
Nothing jumps out, which is why I don't know if I should change my behavior drastically or not, other than giving us both some space right now and signing the papers... I should sign them, right?
again. I was making an effort to call him, though not everyday. Then he seemed to withdraw, shortly after staying overnight here.
