Wonder ~
I wish there was a way to shake our Hs and help them see what a mistake they are making!!! Unfortunately there is nothing we can do but take care of ourselves! Like Deb said--it is HIS journey!!!

I'll give you the advice I was given on my thread...detach, high expectations, patience and high PMA!!!! A true formula for success!!

I know it is easier said than done when we see them peek their heads out of the tunnel, but it is the only way for us to stay on course (and sstay omewhat sane... )

My birthday is March 22 and my D should be final right around then...happy birthday to me!

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)