Staying off the ride 1 - mixed signals

[Wendylon]

TQuestion
- why do you want me to be dimmer, Wendylon? Am i too available?

Yes, Tumbling, to me it feels as if you might learn more about your H by being less responsive. I can't tell whether he is just being friendly in responding to you or whether he is anywhere near putting in some effort of his own.

I know how risky it feels but one way for your to find out is by being dimmer. I do know how hard it is.

I think that you are more responsive/available to him than your realise, probably because you are reining yourself back so much already. I would be very surprised if he felt at all worried about you not being there for him and I think it would do him good to feel his own insecurity (if he has any).

Hope your week is going well.