For those of you wondering whether Retrouvaille is valuable and who might be still trying to convince your spouse to go-- Here is part of what my H wrote me today after our third day of dialogue since our Retro weekend. (We have been separated for six months plus.) I have deleted the more private info but wanted to give you a glimpse of what is possible--
H:"I am feeling more joyful about you. The feeling is like a smile that wants to come up on my face. If it were in nature it would be like a field of daisies in the morning sun. In terms of 1-10, I would say it's an 8."
Who knows where this will lead. No expectations. But it is nice to be on a paved and smoother road for a bit . . . I just wanted to show the folks here that there is always hope and that Retro is a really great program that can help improve marital communications greatly. Hang in there all.
This is gold Unbidden. I'm so happy for you. It look like you're in a good place right now. I look forward to hearing more updates like this. Best of luck to you both.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
This is wonderful to read unbidden. Best of luck to you both :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
