About 30 minutes ago I received a call and voicemail from W's phone. I didn't answer seeing how it was 1am and I knew she was out for drinks again.

Her friend left the voicemail stating she had W and she"ll be sleeping on her couch... And that she's safe.

The following text conversation ensued:
W: I'm a f-ing idiot. I'm dying. Sleeping on Friend's couch. We need to figure our s--t out... Sorry for the insanity....
M: Exactly what "s--t" do you want to figure out?
W: All the s--t
W: I don't know what to do
W: (crying face)
W: dying.
M: What "don't you know" what to do? Dying how? Your messages are a bit cryptic. 
W: Ugh. Babe, I can't coherently answer any of that aside from saying I'm severely f-ed up. As you know. Can we talk tomorrow when you get home from your moms?
W: can't stop crying
M: Sure. We can talk after S goes to bed.  
W: That would be great...sorry to keep you up.
M: Sorry to hear you're not doing well. This is clearly really hard for you.  get some sleep and we'll talk tomorrow. 
W: Ok. Thanks (nickname for me)
W: Good night
M: Good night


I tried to get her to elaborate on exactly what she meant.
She could be wanting to figure out how to split, or trying to figure out what to do regarding us. I'm leaning towards the former, but I couldn't get her to clarify and didn't want to push it since she's been drinking. I wanted a better idea of what the conversation will be about.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done