Vero, it concerns me to hear you say you don't feel like doing things you usually enjoy. These are classic signs of depression. I am not a doctor but I'm an amateur one ;-) - seriously, though - these are signs of depression.

If you are still breastfeeding your daughter, you may want to consider weaning her and going on some meds. You need support and you need to be healthy and strong for those kids.

Honestly, I think it's good that you don't feel like posting about your sitch. You may have processed it to the point where you don't need to process any more. I'm posting 3, 4 times a day - somewhat compulsively - so clearly I got more work to do. I wish I didn't have to obsess on every GD little thing but at least I got a safe place to do that and I don't have to burden my poor mother more than once a day.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page