Pattie, thanks for posting!. How awful you were thinking about D papers on your birthday. I mean, what is in their heads, really?
Do you really think he came out of the tunnel? He DID seem that way... but then all the sudden seemed to run all the way back in.
Anyone have any ideas on something I did differently then? Maybe a tiny more "pursuit" than usual but H said he didn't feel pursued or pressured by me. Just curious if something is obvious that I am not seeing in my own actions.
I need to clarify he gave them to me on the day after my actual birthday-- the day many people seem to confuse with my actual birthday-- but to me there is not much difference. I guess the kicker was that I had made him a nice evening for his in Jan.... and last year on mine, he was ready to run away with me and spend the rest of our lives together. It is just SO tunnel H and so NOT the H I've been seeing.
B, confusion does reign. I believe my H when he has said that... anyone who knows him could see it in him. I see it in your sitch too, which I've been reading. Just consider the posibility.
seattle, maybe D is "something different" in their minds... hadn't thought of it that way. I am a big fan of pampering. I'm looking forward to that facial.
