Originally Posted By: Arsene

It leads to the question, why would I want to be back with this woman? Is she really as worth it as i thought she was? Or have I been deceived for the last 10 years?


Remember Amy's post? You know most of those years were real.

Originally Posted By: AmyC

So you (husbands of MLC wives) really are holding something precious that no one else has; you're holding the real truth about your lives together. You're the only one that's going to understand her when she comes back. You're all that's going to be familiar and if you're not there...


Doesn't mean she's "worth it" now, or that you can't issue an ultimatum. Just because you're a rodeo star doesn't mean you have to ride that bull forever.

Peace and Love your way Arsene.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl