Arsene....glad your sitch is still moving forward..keep working on you and it will all work out in the end.
Denver: thanks for the advice...I know it will hurt b/c i've been there but I really expected buyers remorse today....i was pleasantly surprised that she appeared to have none but i also know it can show up at any time. I'll see her again tomorrow b/c of our sons parent teacher conference tomorrow night but luckily shouldnt have an opportunity to see her on Friday at all....im actually glad about that because I want it to 'stew' with her a bit so to speak.
Its pretty tough to know that you have to move ever so slowly or you'll scare the crap out of them....while at the same time trying to capatilize on a little momentum while its there. Lucky for me I can be much more authentic now with everything so hopefully thats attractive to her and i won't have to 'try' so to speak.
