Here we go again...

[someguy1233]

Thanks for the post Leo. I know there are multiple opinions on how to handle an A. Yours is the path I chose last time... I had good results as well. It sure took some nerve to do it and confront her.

W works downtown. It's a major metropolitan city. Either we carpool or she takes the bus. She rarely drives separate. She goes to brief happy hours about 3 nights per week, at one of about 4 bars. I don't know how to survey this with so many variables... And the need to care for our S when she's out.