Thanks. I'm sorry to hear your husband has left too. I never in my worst nightmare thought this would ever happen to us. My husband wouldn't acknowledge that anything was wrong after his affair. He would just say he doesn't know what he wants, he didn't know why he did it. In an email a couple days ago, he said the affair was a symptom of the problem. Maybe he's realizing he's having MLC? Maybe there's another problem? When I first found out, he said he was in love with her. How can you be so in love with someone you just started a relationship, more than a 28 year relationship? Nothing has made sense from the very beginning of this nightmare. I hope you have a relaxing visit. I know you probably haven't had one moment of relaxation since he left. Thanks for your support to a newbie.