He made an effort there when we first got back together, finally introduced me to his mom and took me to a couple of social events. Then he drifted back into his old Love Avoidant ways. I think it was just too uncomfortable for him, even that minimal amount of intimacy.
Last thing I sent him was a text to ask "Hey - it's been a month since we slept together, three weeks since I've seen you, two weeks since you texted that you were going on a 4-day fishing trip and a week since you texted me to cancel our last date - how do you think I should be feeling about this?"
No answer, of course. And that was over a month ago. Lol.
I'm done. He's just too broken to maintain even a minimally normal amount of communication and intimacy. Feel pretty stupid for taking him back in the first place, but hey, now I have my answer. On to better things (I'd say bigger and better, but really, he was 6'6" - not sure I'd want any bigger! LOL)
