Really struggling with putting the kids through this. Is it ever acceptable or a good idea to share thoughts like this with your spouse? Or is it all pressuring? It is difficult to act as if 100% of the time. If I act as if I am not worried about putting the kids through this, why would she be worried?
And you being worried is going to teach her to be worried about it? I think not. She has to come to her own conclusions about the ramifications of her choices.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
