Don't want to hijack Rough's thread. I will take a peak at your thread. But yes, there were times where it seemed that she didn't care. And I also think that OM had a big part of that. Her mind was on vacation. She didn't want to deal with all of the pain and hurt that she associated with our marriage. OM was an escape from that. She has since admitted that that's what he represented for her.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce