Now Separated, Am I doing the right things?

[Denver_2010]

Denver, you made a comment several months ago that I haven’t forgotten. You told me that during your sitch you witnessed W’s emotions, good or bad. As long as you saw an ounce of emotion you felt there was a fighting chance, maybe you knew the fire wasn’t out so to speak. While the two sitches are different, I think a lot of what I just mentioned still applies. AT’s right, hope is such a personal thing. There’s a lot of ambiguity. Bottom line, hope or no hope, I still have hope.

Absolutely Rough. Hope is what got me through. I am just saying in general that trying to interpret your wife's comments outside of what is actually said is just mind reading.

And yes, I remember telling you that as long as there is emotion, there is still a chance. I believe that 100%. The opposite of love is not anger or hate... it is ambivalence. Your W is not ambivalent.