Our decision to stand for our marriage is one that we make for us. It is a decision that you have to make independent of what she is doing or the choices that she is making.
You are right Denver, of course. So I guess the real thing that I need to figure out at this point is what I want to do. I have read much of your threads and your story is inspiring. I'm just not sure I have enough in the tank to go through this for 18 months.
Yes. That is what you need to decide.
And yeah, get rid of the little loving nicknames for now. Let her initiate contact, keep your responses short and to the point.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
