Quote: I truly believe that one day (it may be years from now...) we will all experience our spouses either trying to come back or admitting they blew it! Who knows where we will be by then??
We have learned from our mistakes ....they have not!
I think we are learning and realize perhaps too late for this WAS, but maybe for ourselves, we realize learning about ourselves and they way we deal with others is a lifelong experience.
I don't think the WAS would truely have started down the road to leaving the M, if they were not sure. I know we want to say they are "not thinking," but clearly they have been "thinking," thinking about not being in this particular M or R. I honestly do not see a scenario, where a WAS would return years later.
We can only strive to change the way we handle ourselves.
