"W, I completely understand. Please don't feel like you have to rush into anything. I love you, you are my wife, and the mother of my children... but above all else, you are my friend. Take your time and we will talk when you are ready. And try to have a great day. Rough"
I like that better too.
Again, we have no idea what she is thinking now. It may be the D bomb, it may not. It is all mind reading at best. And even if it is right, it is just information. It's what we do, and the choices that we make, with that information that counts.
I heard the D bomb a couple of different times, I heard that my W could never forgive me, didn't feel the way that she used to about me, wasn't in love with me (even 15, 16 months into it), that she didn't see how our M could be fixed, how she could ever trust me, how I could ever trust her, how she and I simply 'don't work', how we have nothing in common and spending time together is like a 'knife in the eye', how maybe we could reconnect 'someday', etc., etc., etc.
And here I am. No guarantees, but what we do and our choices matter... and will have an impact.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
