To all of you reading my posts today, I came across this passage in the bible:
This is what the Lord says: “Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded,” declares the Lord. “They will return from the land of the enemy.” Jeremiah 31:16
I hope it brings hope to your situation as it did to me.
My W moved out OM house a week go and rented her own apartment to let me know she wants to save our R. Yesterday we had our first discussion because of some boundaries we have to put in place. She did not like what I was asking so she decided to stop working in our R. She got all defensive and again her pride took place, her stubborness is on the way and will not agree to anything. God bless her as she needs to have a calm heart and mind to make her decisions. I will not put any pressure on her, she does not want to see me and it is not the time for me to pressure anything. Slow and steady, as Starsky said it. Also, to quote Eric "sometimes doing nothing is doing a lot". Let her go thru her anger and let her calm down. She needs the time and so do I.
The bible verse mentioned above helped me a lot today. It has bring me a lot of calm and I pray to the Lord it brings peace to you too.
Love you all, and may the Lord bring your spouses back to you.
