I know that we need to talk but I don't think that I am ready... I am trying to get in to see my psychologist and I would like to see her once or twice before we talk. She is very helpful. She is on vacation this week, and so I am hoping to see her next week. Can we wait to talk until then? I do want you to prepare yourself a little that I am not sure that we are on the same page. I want all of the hurting to end, I care deeply for you and do not want to hurt you. Please give me time to connect with her.
I don't like the sound of this because it sounds nearly identical to a convo I had with my W. She cared deeply for me, she didn't want me to be hurt, she was concerned about me, she wanted to talk to IC first, etc. etc. All of that was laying the groundwork for her departure. In your case your W is already out, so she may be setting you up for the D bomb. Nothing would please me more than to be wrong about this.
