The answer to that question is a little complicated. You see, there was a falling out with my W and two of her best friends. The details of that are long and I'm not sure I quite understand it all myself, but I don't think it is necessary to get into that here. Anyway, she would always have them as confidants to air out her feelings to. This falling out happened over the past 2 years or so. I wasn't going out and having a good time with her so the OM was the one that was there to lend an ear to as a friend. He was the only one that hadn't hurt my W in her eyes. IF that makes any sense...
That makes perfect sense. And it is similar to the OM"s role in my situation as well.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
