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As much as I love my H, I don't think I want this person in my life anymore. He has no idea how to be honest with me or himself, and no desire to look under the hood and deal with anything that could be resolved by him acting differently. He is just a struggling victim...



This is something I say to myself al the time. Not only does it make me feel better, but also the more I say it, the more I believe it!!!

Take time for all of this to sink in. I believe letting go and detaching is the best thing for you, but only you know for sure.

keep coming here to vent!!! (((((WONDER)))))


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)