T, that really helps. I guess reading about the "romantic" type of affairs I got stuck on the idea that he is living out the infatuation he had with me, with someone else.
Still, I know in my head, not my heart just yet, that he could lose interest in her very quickly. And, within a short frame of time, she could become a mistake and bad choice.
I know this from experience--before H and I married, He was a wild drinking/partying pot-smoking ho-bag. And, he seems to be reliving this part of his life with her. Way back when, he often, in fact mostly, regretted the women he got involved with when he was partying hard. Usually, they were very needy and sick. At some point, he would come to his senses and see who they really were and he would be disgusted with himself. He even told me a month ago that he is disgusted with himself.
Thanks again, Heather
P.S. so nice to have a place where I can let out all the sick, psycho, grief-stricken thoughts and not feel judged. It helps so much and keeps me from texting him.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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