I suspect there is as I did spy and found her a another man's house overnight. I waited til the morning and confronted her. I thought if she could see that I was willing to forgive anything that we could make it. She said that they were only friends. What is it believe half of what you see, and nothing of what they say. If there is more to it than that, I don't know. The kids have not met anyone else, and she doesn't seem to be deceptive about anything. I really wish that I would not have snooped. Wether or not it is EA or PA, imaging someone else supporting her instead of me is very difficult. I am not a jealous person by nature, but it hurts. Not knowing would be one less major thing weighing on my mind. It seems to have added pressure to a already pressure filled sitch. Not to mention I broke some trust boundaries by spying, creating another obstacle for her to overcome. Do I think it is wrong what she did, hell yeah. But or goal is to be the lighthouse back home.
Not good and she bold faced lied to your face. It sounds like you handled yourself well, it sounds like she has no problem at all lieing to you.
